“A human being is a part of the whole called by us universe, a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feeling as something separated from the rest, a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness. This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest to us. Our task must be to free ourselves from this prison by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.”
Keep your desires in control & think positive; do not hanker after extraordinary desires & be just like an Ocean & never lose your peace of mind in any of the circumstances. So always be creative in life by thinking positively as thoughts have the power to change one’s life completely. Be always positive & always be Happy in Life accordingly.
If you are a confident positive person, your feelings will make others feel positive about circumstances. We are all born with a combination of characters. What character does a person possess along with confidence would define a person on why he/she does a particular act.
First of all, you must be or have confidence in yourself. You must have faith and the drive to keep a forward momentum no matter the obstacle. Educate yourself, prepare yourself mentally and physically, pay attention, be aware, be alert, keep yourself as sharp as you can. Adaptable, Behavior, belief, confidence, (ABC) three words that I have lived truly believing in.
“It is not the strongest or the most intelligent who will survive but those who can best manage change.”
If we can get to the beliefs behind our actions we can better regulate our behaviors. It’s important to remember too, that “we aren’t in a picture; we’re part of a picture. We deal with what is today, knowing that it shouldn’t necessarily be what is tomorrow.”
Beliefs form attitudes which in turn create behaviors. “Attitudes are the connectors—the synapses—between beliefs and behavior, a self-comforting way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically reflected in a person’s behavior.” Everything we do comes from how we look at life—our personal reality.
Our most memorable childhood experiences, those that shape us, take place in the company of a trusted adult. Given the highly protective, restrictive nature of children’s outdoor experiences in today’s world, the presence of an involved adult is key. In essence, these adults act as the gatekeepers of children’s access to the natural world.
We all experience pressure in our everyday lives. The manner in which pressure affects us depends upon how we choose to think about worry, use pressure, and respond to difficulty. Pressure is not always a “harsh” thing. Pressure motivates us to changes our behaviors and moves us closer to our chosen goals, dreams, and aspirations. If we felt no pressure, we would not be compelled to act in ways that bring about meaningful change.
Good Nature actually creates Good Future – Amusing story of the king and ministers with three bags!
Once upon a time, a king summoned his three ministers and asked each minister to take a bag, go to the palace’s garden and fill that bag with all kinds of delicious fruits.
He clearly told them not to ask anybody for help and not to rely on each other. Each one should fulfill this task by himself.
The first minister set about filling the bag with all the best fruits and vegetables. He wanted to please the king, so he made sure he chose carefully. By the end of the day, he had filled his bag with the best and delicious fruits he could find.
The second minister was convinced that the king does not want the fruits and actually he’s not asking for those fruits for himself. So he, with this mentality, decided to be sloppy and started to fill the bag with just any fruits without checking whether they are edible, rotten or tasty. He simply did not care.
The third minister thought that the king does not even care what’s inside the bag, so he started filling the bag with Leafs, weed and other non-edible garbage just to make the bag look like its full.
The next day, the king summoned back his three ministers along with the bags they were set about to fill with fruits.
When the three ministers showed up, the king gave an order to his soldiers to imprison, for three months with no food or water, each of the ministers with their own bags in a faraway prison where no one can hear or help them.
The first minister, having filled his bag with good fruits, ate properly and survived the three months healthily.
The second minister, having filled his bag sloppily, had to live frugally with the little good fruits he had. He suffered a lot during those three months but he made it alive.
The third minister, having filled his bag with garbage, did not stand a chance and died out of hunger.
A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results. There are two very different types of thoughts positive or negative – that we experience. While one type of thought is positive and another negative, the ways in which they manifest themselves in our lives are largely within our control. While we certainly cannot control many tragic events in life that will inevitably bring about painful grief (e.g., death of a loved one, personal tragedy) we have far more control than we realize over the way that we choose to respond to the natural, everyday stressors of life (e.g., running late, misplacing something, missing a deadline, an argument, etc.).
Some common characteristics of positive thoughts are, Improves performance, Encourages and focus energy, Feels refreshing/energizing and is Believed to be within our capabilities/something we can handle.
Some common characteristics of negative thoughts are, Declines performance, Discouraging and displaces energy, Decreases overall performance/abilities which May lead to physical illness/mental fatigue/emotional exhaustion.
Having negativity, negative thinking, depression, worry, fear etc. in life makes one’s life very unhappy & worrying. If you feel hopelessness, negative in your mind then there is the urgent need for you to reverse all that negative thinking by feeling optimistic & having positive thoughts in your mind. One should start encouraging his mind with positive thoughts as it shall bring positivity in your life. Negative thoughts are always counterproductive in life & it drains one’s energy in life. So we should totally eliminate negative thinking from our mind & always think positive. Just think well about you & feel that everything good shall happen to you. Such positive thinking shall change your life completely.
The parents that you were born to, your country, time of birth, place of birth were already preordained as required in astrology predictions, similarly marriage partner (family) and death from the same chart made (by DOB AND PLACE OF BIRTH and PLACE OF BIRTH) cannot be altered, as we no control on our birthplace, time and family to which we take birth , and another our circumstance we get also came from same chart over which we have no control ( income, educational level, married or single ), and again it is very difficult to change our pre-ordained predictions, as the entire life is mapped by the blueprint of astrology that displays soul-path and how an individual’s life will play out. And that’s mostly right as far as the laws of the karma concerned. Only one astrological house in the chart shows tendencies, past and pending karmas and by a grace of God / GURU / LORD, if our present karmas are truthful as desirable by the spiritual behavior or deeds we can be blessed with peace of mind. I.e. health, wealth and happiness of our life and also for our family life and great circumstance.
How you choose to live your life, your outlook on the good and bad, and the way you think about yourself and others can influence your happiness.
“We cannot change our past. We cannot change the fact that people act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.”. i.e. adaptable nature, good behavior, confidence(trust/faith). (What matters is not so much the content of a person’s beliefs/religions but whether or not they led to the personal transformation of a positive kind.).
Also Read: JYOTISH BELIEF